[TANGO-L] It's the Leader's fault!!!!!

[Bibi Wong <bibibwong @HOTMAIL.COM>]

Tango Guy mentioned that "the leader needs to take responsibility ..."

I don't wish to argue if it is the follower's fault or not, but I agree that
the leader should take the responsibility, much like the captain of the ship
taking the responsibility.  Now that I begin to learn to lead and begin to
see the entire picture of the dance, I believe in this theory even more; I
apologize to my partner-follower if I ever mislead him/her.

But...

"It's a better social skill then placing blame especially if a leader has
romantic intentions."

I am sorry that Tango Guy and I will remain opposite fundamentally on the
issue whether tango has anything to do with romance.  It is a better social
skills to do whatever necessary *regardless* if there is any romantic
intentions.   However, it is pointless to expound further at the risk of
wasting the time of other readers. :-)

Bibi

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