Re: [TANGO-L] Inside a Beginner Man's Mind

[Jai Jeffryes <doktordogg @YAHOO.COM>]

--- Carol Shepherd <shepherd @ARBORLAW.COM> wrote:
> I appreciate ANY MAN who is trying to learn ANY
> DANCE.

Thanks for contributing this letter.

One thing that bugs me is the frequency that men's
motives are maligned.  So often, it is implied that
poor leading is a result of what men lack in terms of
dedication or consideration, rather than acknowledging
that leading simply is a skill that is tremendously
difficult to cultivate well and requires a certain
amount of time just to "tough it out", as one recent
poster put it.

I never expected anyone to roll out a red carpet for
me when I just couldn't do anything at all, but even
so there have always been gracious and fun-spirited
dancers who have extended themselves to me.

Men who do "tough it out" remember who toughed it out
with them.

Jai
NYC


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