Re: [TANGO-L] "Like they mean it..."

[Stephen Brown <Stephen.P.Brown @DAL.FRB.ORG>]

To some extent, I think this discussion is confusing clarity of intent
with firmness of embrace.  A wet noodle cannot lead because it has no
intent.  Neither can a dry noodle because it also has no intent, it is
simply stiff.

I think the qualities expected of a leader are better expressed in Linda
Allred comments:
>If you are going to lead, then do it with decision!

Leading the follower's movements requires a clarity of intent and
willingness to be present within oneself and for another.  Sometimes
people come to Argentine tango without those qualities and must develop
them.  Leaders who have not developed these qualities, lack knowledge of
the steps they are trying to execute, or lack confidence in themselves or
their partner are likely to present themselves as wet noodles...

Leading also requires sensitivity and flexibility.  Without these skills,
the leader is less able to adjust to the follower's timing and movement
qualities and are unable to adjust to changing floor conditions. Sometimes
people come to Argentine tango without these qualities and must develop
them.  Leaders who have not developed these qualities are likely to put a
firm clamp on their partners, which will prevent them from contributing to
the dance.

With best wishes for the New Year,
Steve

Stephen Brown
Tango Argentino de Tejas
http://www.tejastango.com/