A Man's Response to Women Leading

[Clay Nelson <claybird @TELEPORT.COM>]

I'm all for women learning to lead (and men learning to follow) and, we
encourage this to happen in our Portland tango community.

However, I would like to focus on Ingrid's suggestion that men ask women to
lead.   I love to follow on occasions, but I'm certainly not as good as most
women, and thus it seems a bit unfair to ask a woman (or a man) to lead
me--but then again if I don't ask, I don't get a chance to practice
following.  I'd like to know how others feel about this.

Clay Nelson

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