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There are 26 messages totalling 1546 lines in this issue. Topics of the day: 1. Good Mistakes 2. hello! 3. unsubscribe (2) 4. Women asking men to dance (3) 5. Additional showings of National Geographic documentary 6. Tango update / progress from Wellington, New Zealand 7. Fw: Missing apologies (4) 8. Tanda Preferences (4) 9. Url update 10. Fw: Re: Fw: Missing apologies 11. Roommate for Cosmo Tango 12. Milonga CD 13. Zotto and Plebs on National Geographic Tango Documentary 14. Missing apologies and Latino Stereotypes 15. Tanda Preferences (long) 16. TANGO TANGO, April 19 to 24 17. Missing Apologies - "Rosi's Comments"


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Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2000 00:12:18 +0000 From: Larry Carroll <larrydla @JUNO.COM> Subject: Good Mistakes Lester Buck had a good point about mistakes. I want to add to that. We usually think of mistakes as something bad. They are a main part of learning any activity. We spend a lot of time doing something, criticizing our performance by comparing it with some ideal, then focussing on one or a few related mistakes that we observed to eliminate them. But when we're actually DOING something, rather than learning or practicing it, mistakes can be good. Of course, we want to avoid socially or physically catastrophic mistakes. But except for those kinds, in social dancing a perfect performance is not a sign of success. It's a sign of failure. Here are the good things about risking and inevitably making mistakes. * Risk adds the excitement that a little bit of adrenaline brings. For your partner as well as yourself. * By making mistakes and recovering from them you learn to handle mistakes. Which also gives you more confidence, makes you more willing and able to risk. * A mistake can be a source of creativity, because your're doing the unexpected. * Creating a way out of a mistake might make a dance move that none of your teachers could teach or maybe even do. So when you next make a mistake on the dance floor, don't feel bad, or stop, or blame your partner. Use the mistake, transcend it, ENJOY it. Larry de Los Angeles http://home.att.net/~larrydla ________________________________________________________________ YOU'RE PAYING TOO MUCH FOR THE INTERNET! Juno now offers FREE Internet Access! Try it today - there's no risk! For your FREE software, visit: http://dl.www.juno.com/get/tagj.


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Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2000 14:37:52 +0100 From: DW <dwajn @IMAGE.DK> Subject: Women asking men to dance From: Dan To: Recipients of TANGO-L digests <TANGO-L @mitvma.mit.edu> Sent: 2. february 2000 09:00 Subject: Women asking men to dance Dear Listeros, I feel very gratified that so many of you chose to speak on the subject. I also want to make absolutely clear, that I never dreamed of trying to criticize the Bs As tango ways. Even though, as some of you wrote to me, it is a cruel tradition, you don't eradicate tigers because they are cruel. When in Bs As we should do as the Romans do... However, I have a feeling that elsewhere not much of a social dance tradition exists. Simply because social dance is gone. When tango clubs are formed, as here in Copenhagen, a new code is somehow instantly created, often a rather silly one. Clearly, this is not a local "tradition" or "culture". I hope that this discussion will contribute to forming new, more friendly codes for informal "practicas". Not necessarily for all occasions, just to relax things a bit and bring us back to earth. I do not think that shaking up of these "instant codes" would violate local cultural values. Here in Copenhagen girls dance together, sometimes men do that as well. Some other places they do not. As far as I know in most places it is allowed to closely embrace a lady in a dance, but not in an elevator. Dear ladies, you write quite a bit on how to ask men to dance without really asking. I am sure that is all very clever, useful and practical. But you want to have a cake and eat it. When you do the asking you risk rejection. We men do it all the time, that is what gives as heart attacks and ages us prematurely. Didn't you know we were heroes? Now, when you try it yourself, you think twice before ever rejecting us. So here is the profit for us men. The point, as far as I am concerned is to never to say or to hear a "no". A nice revolutionary utopia, isn't it? Some of you wrote to me directly, not to the List, giving way to strong emotions. I do appreciate it, but will discuss only the messages posted to the List, as this is not a private subject. Best regards, Dan Wajnman, Copenhagen dwajn @image.dk


Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2000 08:38:07 EST From: Victor Crichton <victor_vsc @HOTMAIL.COM> Subject: Re: Additional showings of National Geographic documentary Melinda Bates wrote: > >Cammie, I remember it as a one hour National Geographic special. This >edited version was a big disappointment. >Melinda > >----- I also thought that the new version was shorter, so I took another look at my older version. As Mark Celeya wrote, the section on Gardel was cut out plus a few of the interviews were shortened. As close as I could tell, the new version was approx twenty minutes long and the older version was six or seven minutes longer. If someone has another version that was an hour long, I would be very interested in getting a copy of it. Many thanks for any info, Victor Crichton Tampa Bay, Florida ______________________________________________________ Get Your Private, Free Email at http://www.hotmail.com


Date: Thu, 3 Feb 2000 03:26:01 +1300 From: Alex White <alex_tangofirulete @XTRA.CO.NZ> Subject: Tango update / progress from Wellington, New Zealand This is a multi-part message in MIME format.


=_NextPart_000_00CD_01BF6DF6.64D7A620 Content-Type: text/plain; charset="iso-8859-1" Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable Saludos tangueros del mundo ! I'd like to report the success of our new Latin- American Nightclub, = where there is many a tango to be danced. I am DJ and dance teacher at the Wellington dance scene's newest dance = venue which can be danced at nearly all through the week. the past several weeks have been very successful and the scene is = growing here a lot considering Wellington "small" size of around 500,000 = or so people, we are now managing to support dance classes everyday of = the week, and have tango dancing more than four nights a week. We are = very fortunate to have a live tango band which plays once every six = weeks. (not often enough!) I have been actively promoting with flyers and weekly dancing in the = BsAs equivilent of calle Florida y Lavalle here for over 4 months now = :) We have a monthly magazine and events monthly. I am planning a big Ball = in May too.=20 Tomorrow I have been invited by the Argentine Embassy to represent the = Argentine Rugby 7's team by dancing Tango with my Students for the Prime = Minister, Mayor and Public during a parade where all countries who = participate in Rugby 7's are represented. (it should be great - if it = doesn't rain) - if it does I suppose we'll be damp tangueros (it adds to = the sensuality of the dance - as we experienced for a street dancing = event last year -Cuba St Carnival ). I am playing my bandoneon in a performance on 4th March for the = Wellington Fringe Arts Festival, which is an annual festival promoting = the growth of Arts, Dance etc. it's called "Penas del bandoneon" and = tells a story of a tango teacher who fights for justice, and what she = believes in, during the military dictatorship and disapperances of the = 1970's. Things will be busy because me and four other Wellingtonions will be = going to CITA-2000 (www.cosmotango.com)in Buenos Aires on the 10th of = March. (I went last year to CITA'99 & it was totally awesome - great = bands too) (I'll be staying til the 10 Abril). Also we're having Hugo Valdez (el = Gato) visit Wellington & Auckland to give workshops. I'm travelling to Blenheim, Nelson & Christchurch to give workshops = between 16-19 Feb too. Happy dancing - and if you see me in Buenos Aires, come and say Hi - & = don't be afraid to ask me to dance (I generally don't say no & don't bite...very often) :) have a look at me (tall 1.95cm, 22 yr old blond guy on my webpage) http://come.to/tango_firulete Chaucito y pronto te vuelvo a ver mi Buenos Aires querido....


=_NextPart_000_00CD_01BF6DF6.64D7A620 Content-Type: text/html; charset="iso-8859-1" Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable <!DOCTYPE HTML PUBLIC "-//W3C//DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional//EN"> <HTML><HEAD> <META content=3D"text/html; charset=3Diso-8859-1" = http-equiv=3DContent-Type> <META content=3D"MSHTML 5.00.2014.210" name=3DGENERATOR> <STYLE></STYLE> </HEAD> <BODY bgColor=3D#ffffff> <DIV><FONT size=3D2>Saludos tangueros del mundo !</FONT></DIV> <DIV> </DIV> <DIV><FONT size=3D2>I'd like to report the success of our new Latin- = American=20 Nightclub, where there is many a tango to be danced.</FONT></DIV> <DIV><FONT size=3D2>I am DJ and dance teacher at the Wellington dance = scene's=20 newest dance venue which can be danced at nearly all through the=20 week.</FONT></DIV> <DIV><FONT size=3D2>the past several weeks have been very successful and = the scene=20 is growing here a lot considering Wellington "small" size of around = 500,000 or=20 so people, we are now managing to support dance classes everyday of the = week,=20 and have tango dancing more than four nights a week.  We are very = fortunate=20 to have a live tango band which plays once every six weeks. (not often=20 enough!)</FONT></DIV> <DIV><FONT size=3D2>I have been actively promoting with flyers and = weekly dancing=20 in the BsAs equivilent of calle Florida y Lavalle here for over 4 = months=20 now  :)</FONT></DIV> <DIV> </DIV> <DIV><FONT size=3D2>We have a monthly magazine and events monthly. I am = planning a=20 big Ball in May too. </FONT></DIV> <DIV><FONT size=3D2>Tomorrow I have been invited by the Argentine = Embassy to=20 represent the Argentine Rugby 7's team by dancing Tango with my Students = for the=20 Prime Minister, Mayor and Public during a parade where all countries who = participate in Rugby 7's are represented. (it should be great - if it = doesn't=20 rain) - if it does I suppose we'll be damp tangueros (it adds to the = sensuality=20 of the dance - as we experienced for a street dancing event last year = -Cuba St=20 Carnival ).</FONT></DIV> <DIV> </DIV> <DIV><FONT size=3D2>I am playing my bandoneon in a performance on 4th = March for=20 the Wellington Fringe Arts Festival, which is an annual festival = promoting the=20 growth of Arts, Dance  etc. it's called "Penas del bandoneon" and = tells a=20 story of a tango teacher who fights for justice, and what she = believes in,=20 during the military dictatorship and disapperances of the = 1970's.</FONT></DIV> <DIV> </DIV> <DIV><FONT size=3D2>Things will be busy because me and four other = Wellingtonions=20 will be going to CITA-2000  (<A=20 href=3D"http://www.cosmotango.com">www.cosmotango.com</A>)in Buenos = Aires on the=20 10th of March. (I went last year to CITA'99 & it was totally awesome = - great=20 bands too)</FONT></DIV> <DIV><FONT size=3D2>(I'll be staying til the 10 Abril). Also we're = having Hugo=20 Valdez (el Gato) visit Wellington & Auckland to give = workshops.</FONT></DIV> <DIV> </DIV> <DIV><FONT size=3D2>I'm travelling to Blenheim, Nelson & = Christchurch to give=20 workshops between 16-19 Feb too.</FONT></DIV> <DIV> </DIV> <DIV><FONT size=3D2>Happy dancing - and if you see me in Buenos Aires, = come and=20 say Hi - & don't be afraid to ask me to dance</FONT></DIV> <DIV><FONT size=3D2> (I generally don't say no & don't = bite...very=20 often)   :)</FONT></DIV> <DIV><FONT size=3D2>have a look at me (tall 1.95cm, 22 yr old blond guy = on my=20 webpage)</FONT></DIV> <DIV><FONT size=3D2><A=20 href=3D"http://come.to/tango_firulete">http://come.to/tango_firulete</A><= /FONT></DIV> <DIV> </DIV> <DIV><FONT size=3D2>Chaucito y    pronto te vuelvo a ver = mi Buenos=20 Aires querido....</FONT></DIV> <DIV> </DIV> <DIV> </DIV> <DIV> </DIV> <DIV> </DIV> <DIV> </DIV> <DIV> </DIV> <DIV> </DIV></BODY></HTML>


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Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2000 09:54:27 -0500 From: Enrico Massetti <e_mass @EMAIL.MSN.COM> Subject: Fw: Missing apologies This is a multi-part message in MIME format.


=_NextPart_000_003E_01BF6D63.7DE039E0 Content-Type: text/plain; charset="iso-8859-1" Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit Querido Tangueros y tangueras, midnight is passed by without apologies from Mr. Rosi, so, as promised, here you have some excerpts of the e-mail I received from a lady, the complete original is in the attachment:


Original Message ----- From: Gabriella Gossipa <barefoot_tanguera @faking_it_all.com> To: Enrico Massetti <e_mass @EMAIL.MSN.COM> Sent: Tuesday, January 71, 2000 5:36 PM Subject: Re: Missing apologies > Querido Enrico, > > I tel you this story so you can see all about Rosi. Is an embarrass for me > that I once like and trust him. I was very sat and lonely when he says to me, > "Gabriella, te amo!" Though his breath sometime make me choke, I tell him is > OK to meet befor the milonga and I geeve him gum. <snip> > After "Cumparsita" he tell me he like to go for drive and is nice night so we > tour around but I say "no besos" because I have not more gum so he take me to > his trailer and tells me to plese wait. <snip> > But I am thinking is no good > tonight and I go out too and tell Rosi to take me home but he says no and so I > just walk home. Enrico, what can I do to make Rosi estop wearing mi boots? > > Ciao, > > Gabriella Gossipa (Missing signature:)


Frank Williams, Phd, University of Minnesota (I took the liberty to put back the signature, Frank please forgive me) Thanks Frank for helping me to make my point with a lot of humor: We have rules to prevent personal gossips to be posted on the list, the reason WHY we have these rules is because on the Internet it is so easy to fake identities and disseminate false, wrong or simply inappropriate information of personal nature that this has to be forbidden. I don't know if Rosi is a man or a woman, I don't know if he/she even exists, or if the name is only a fake identity assumed for whatever reason by somebody who wants to throw dirt on a key figure of tango in Florida. In addition, there is no lady in the world who tells me her most intimate secrets of her after-dance, even if sometimes I am part of "real" gossips among "real" milongueras and milongueros who comment the dancing style and ability of their partners, usually around a table having an after-milonga cup of coffee. So, dear Rosi, whoever you are, if you really exist, and feel that you just made an honest mistake, go forward with the tangueros of Miami, they are looking for you to dance a tango with you. They, both men and women, are very good with ganchos! And, if you don't exist, but you are only a fake identity, rest in peace forever. So long, Enrico


=_NextPart_000_003E_01BF6D63.7DE039E0 Content-Type: message/rfc822; name="Re Missing apologies.eml" Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit Content-Disposition: attachment; filename="Re Missing apologies.eml" Received: from lenti.med.umn.edu - 128.101.81.1 by email.msn.com with Microsoft SMTPSVC; Tue, 1 Feb 2000 14:30:19 -0800 Received: from lenti.med.umn.edu (pc6-108.bsbe.umn.edu [160.94.106.108]) by lenti.med.umn.edu (8.9.1a/8.9.1) with ESMTP id QAA08290 for <e_mass @EMAIL.MSN.COM>; Tue, 1 Feb 2000 16:30:12 -0600 (CST) Message-ID: <38975FD1.E45A14D7 @lenti.med.umn.edu>

Date: Tue, 01 Feb 2000 16:36:22 -0600 From: "Frank G. Williams" <frankw @mail.ahc.umn.edu> Reply-To: frankw @mail.ahc.umn.edu Organization: University of Minnesota X-Mailer: Mozilla 4.04 (Macintosh; U; PPC) MIME-Version: 1.0 To: Enrico Massetti <e_mass @EMAIL.MSN.COM> Subject: Re: Missing apologies References: <000701bf6cea$90613520$d095193f @analyst> Content-Type: text/plain; charset=us-ascii Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit Return-Path: frankw @mail.ahc.umn.edu Querido Enrico, I tel you this story so you can see all about Rosi. Is an embarrass for me that I once like and trust him. I was very sat and lonely when he says to me, "Gabriella, te amo!" Though his breath sometime make me choke, I tell him is OK to meet befor the milonga and I geeve him gum. Later he come to mi house to take me for dinner, and the pickup truck is ful of old tires, and we drive to the canal and he stops. Then he takes from under the seat brown bags and he says "the hole in the muffler keep them warm" but is not enough for mine since the french fries are cold but only mi cetchup is hot. At the milonga mi friends wonder why am I wearing boots and I look toward Rosi and then they know immediate that i am weeshing to no have blue toes. But is not his fault he wear wooden shoos because hees father make and sell them to touristas. After "Cumparsita" he tell me he like to go for drive and is nice night so we tour around but I say "no besos" because I have not more gum so he take me to his trailer and tells me to plese wait. Then he rush in and soon out comes two childrens and a old man and one dog and cat and he says to them just to wait outside for a few minutes. When I go in with Rosi he says "Que linda, bebe'" but the sheets are still warm from somebody else and I can no stand the smell of catfood. As he is untie mi boots the childrens outside are shouting at the dog so Rosi open the door to quite them. But I am thinking is no good tonight and I go out too and tell Rosi to take me home but he says no and so I just walk home. Enrico, what can I do to make Rosi estop wearing mi boots? Ciao, Gabriella Gossipa


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Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2000 16:03:15 +0100 From: Sabine Fuchs <Sabine.Fuchs @SBG.AC.AT> Subject: Re: Fw: Missing apologies Is there really somebody interested in this shit? Where for the heck is the webmaster? >Querido Tangueros y tangueras, > >midnight is passed by without apologies from Mr. Rosi, so, as promised, >here you have some excerpts of the e-mail I received from a lady, the >complete >original is in the attachment: > >----- Original Message ----- >From: Gabriella Gossipa <barefoot_tanguera @faking_it_all.com> >To: Enrico Massetti <e_mass @EMAIL.MSN.COM> >Sent: Tuesday, January 71, 2000 5:36 PM >Subject: Re: Missing apologies > > >> Querido Enrico, >> >> I tel you this story so you can see all about Rosi. Is an embarrass for >me >> that I once like and trust him. I was very sat and lonely when he says to >me, >> "Gabriella, te amo!" Though his breath sometime make me choke, I tell him >is >> OK to meet befor the milonga and I geeve him gum. > ><snip> > >> After "Cumparsita" he tell me he like to go for drive and is nice night so >we >> tour around but I say "no besos" because I have not more gum so he take me >to >> his trailer and tells me to plese wait. > ><snip> > >> But I am thinking is no good >> tonight and I go out too and tell Rosi to take me home but he says no and >so I >> just walk home. Enrico, what can I do to make Rosi estop wearing mi >boots? >> >> Ciao, >> >> Gabriella Gossipa > >(Missing signature:) >----------------------------------------------------------------- >Frank Williams, Phd, University of Minnesota >(I took the liberty to put back the signature, Frank please forgive me) > >Thanks Frank for helping me to make my point with a lot of humor: > >We have rules to prevent personal gossips to be posted on the list, the >reason WHY we have these rules is because on the Internet it is so easy >to fake identities and disseminate false, wrong or simply inappropriate >information of personal nature that this has to be forbidden. > >I don't know if Rosi is a man or a woman, I don't know if he/she even >exists, >or if the name is only a fake identity assumed for whatever reason by >somebody who wants to throw dirt on a key figure of tango in Florida. > >In addition, there is no lady in the world who tells me her most intimate >secrets of her after-dance, even if sometimes I am part of "real" gossips >among "real" milongueras and milongueros who comment the dancing >style and ability of their partners, usually around a table having an >after-milonga >cup of coffee. > >So, dear Rosi, whoever you are, if you really exist, and feel that you just >made an >honest mistake, go forward with the tangueros of Miami, they are looking for >you >to dance a tango with you. They, both men and women, are very good with >ganchos! > >And, if you don't exist, but you are only a fake identity, rest in peace >forever. > >So long, > >Enrico > > > > >Received: from lenti.med.umn.edu - 128.101.81.1 by email.msn.com with Microsoft SMTPSVC; > Tue, 1 Feb 2000 14:30:19 -0800 >Received: from lenti.med.umn.edu (pc6-108.bsbe.umn.edu [160.94.106.108]) > by lenti.med.umn.edu (8.9.1a/8.9.1) with ESMTP id QAA08290 > for <e_mass @EMAIL.MSN.COM>; Tue, 1 Feb 2000 16:30:12 -0600 (CST) >Message-ID: <38975FD1.E45A14D7 @lenti.med.umn.edu> >Date: Tue, 01 Feb 2000 16:36:22 -0600 >From: "Frank G. Williams" <frankw @mail.ahc.umn.edu> >Reply-To: frankw @mail.ahc.umn.edu >Organization: University of Minnesota >X-Mailer: Mozilla 4.04 (Macintosh; U; PPC) >MIME-Version: 1.0 >To: Enrico Massetti <e_mass @EMAIL.MSN.COM> >Subject: Re: Missing apologies >References: <000701bf6cea$90613520$d095193f @analyst> >Content-Type: text/plain; charset=us-ascii >Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit >Return-Path: frankw @mail.ahc.umn.edu > >Querido Enrico, > >I tel you this story so you can see all about Rosi. Is an embarrass for me >that I once like and trust him. I was very sat and lonely when he says to me, >"Gabriella, te amo!" Though his breath sometime make me choke, I tell him is >OK to meet befor the milonga and I geeve him gum. Later he come to mi house >to take me for dinner, and the pickup truck is ful of old tires, and we drive >to the canal and he stops. Then he takes from under the seat brown bags and >he says "the hole in the muffler keep them warm" but is not enough for mine >since the french fries are cold but only mi cetchup is hot. At the milonga mi >friends wonder why am I wearing boots and I look toward Rosi and then they >know immediate that i am weeshing to no have blue toes. But is not his fault >he wear wooden shoos because hees father make and sell them to touristas. >After "Cumparsita" he tell me he like to go for drive and is nice night so we >tour around but I say "no besos" because I have not more gum so he take me to >his trailer and tells me to plese wait. Then he rush in and soon out comes >two childrens and a old man and one dog and cat and he says to them just to >wait outside for a few minutes. When I go in with Rosi he says "Que linda, >bebe'" but the sheets are still warm from somebody else and I can no stand the >smell of catfood. As he is untie mi boots the childrens outside are shouting >at the dog so Rosi open the door to quite them. But I am thinking is no good >tonight and I go out too and tell Rosi to take me home but he says no and so I >just walk home. Enrico, what can I do to make Rosi estop wearing mi boots? > >Ciao, > >Gabriella Gossipa


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Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2000 10:56:16 EST From: Vicky Magaletta <Vickymag @AOL.COM> Subject: Re: Fw: Missing apologies Here we go again !!! It has been a long time since this foolishness has happened. It is really too bad that we actually have people who sit at their computers all day long and write these sorts of things. Perhaps they should be out dancing instead. We had an understanding that this list was for the purpose of advertising/commenting on Tango...it's dance, culture, etc. The best way to avoid these situations is to ignore the people who write these sorts of things. When people make comments or insult other people, first of all, the webmaster should not be sending out the message; and second, if it gets out, then we should JUST IGNORE IT. If you choose to answer it, you are just like the person who wrote it. Do not lower yourself/standards by acknowledging them. The best punishment is to ignore them. Whomever writes these comments sounds like a lonely and pitiful person. Please, do not make this list a place to voice your foolish, out of place opinions just because you have nothing else to do. To the rest of us who read these postings, find them helpful and do lean new things, let's make sure we keep this list active and interesting and again, IGNORE the foolish comments. Gracias and happy dancing to all Vicky Magaletta Boston, MA


Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2000 02:04:39 +0000 From: Keith Elshaw <elshaw @INTERLOG.COM> Subject: Tanda Preferences Dear folks; How do you like your Tandas? (If you like them). I ask this admitting that I seem to be from another planet on the subject of Tandas. I know I am in a tiny minority of dancers/d.j.'s who have developed their own opinions instead of accepting what is purported to be "the way." I suppose wierd things can happen in a vacuum, and for the first few years I was involved in Tango, there was no one around me who espoused "the way." So from the beginning I was programming the music for an optimum experience for myself and others. Now I wonder if I wasn't blessed by being in that vacuum in my formative years. For now, I know a lot and I see a lot and I understand how things are. I know that acknowledged great d.j.'s spend countless hours putting together tandas. They search for songs by the same artist that are exactly the same beat so they can link 4 together. Then another 4. Then another 4. They make notes and use the combinations over and over. I have been very polite and not said a word to any of them. But when I am on the dance floor, I want to scream when they do this to me. It feels like they are treating me like a horse that should have blinders on. Why? Four songs at exactly the same tempo by the same orchestra? This is fun and exciting? This is for people with something to express/explore? This is conducive to passion and probing? At McDonald's, maybe. At Arthur Murray. The most dramatic illustration of my frustration would be to cite Vals. When I program Vals, I might start with a mellow or slower one (actually I try to stay away from the really slow ones); but the next has to be faster. I've already spent 3 long minutes with the slow one. I have to move on. When a d.j. plays 4 Vals by even a wonderful orchesta at the same tempo, I have to sit down. I don't have it in me to keep expressing the same thing over and over and over and over for 12 or more minutes, ESPECIALLY to just be polite. Whether I am with a partner I want to dance with or not. It is excruciating. It's the same with any Tanda. Four different Tangos by D'Arienzo are wonderful; four with exactly the same feeling and tempo diminishes the experience as the Tanda unfolds. That makes you go through the motions to be polite to your partner. Yech! Don't d.j.'s know there are 60 seconds in every minute; (and in my world of audio engineering) there are 30 frames in every second? In 12 minutes, there are 720 seconds. Most emotions are like beats - they keep coming and coming. Please don't make me try to feel the same way 720 times in a row (let alone the 21,600 frames of the 12 minutes). I can't understand why anyone in their right mind would play 4 of anything in a row at the same tempo by, say, DeAngelis. Unless they are deaf, or on drugs. Or new to Tango and trying to follow what they think are the "rules." Or not a dancer. And to a lesser degree I feel the same about Tanturi, Pugliese, Troilo - whoever. And I adore the music of these maestros. (I know they mixed up their songs in concert). I can't give my blood for 3 minutes to Chique and then do it again 3 more times. But I can turn the tap back on for Derecho Viejo, Que Noche, Malandraca ... =BFEst=E1 claro? Am I really the only one who feels this way? I can make great Tandas by any orchestra - but none of the songs in my Tandas express the same feelings as the one before. D.J.'s of the Tango world ... wake up! Have some balls! Make the music make sense - not follow artificial "rules." Well, what do you all think about this? Do you realize that if all you have ever heard is the "traditional" method of programming Tandas, you are being force-fed a lesser experience? Who says Tandas have to be 4 songs that invoke exactly the same emotional response? It certainly wasn't anyone who had an ounce of understanding of the human soul. It was just somebody with an idea that others copied. Like Bill Drake, the inventor of 60's format radio, who indirectly killed music radio, ultimately, as others meekly mimicked his formula. I'd love to talk to the person who invented the Tanda. I'll bet he/she is shaking their head over all the well-intentioned copiers who just don't get it. Well, actually, the reason I'm sending this to the list is that I expect I might learn something I don't know about all this from the well-informed list members who might choose to respond. But I'll still put my music mixes against anyone's, anytime - if dancers are to judge it. Each song demands so much ... how can you just blithely expect people to do it 3 more times right away? Why not just play La Yumba 4 times in a row then? That would be a Tanda ... I do reserve the right to change my mind, and I promise that if I do, I will detail the reasons for doing so in a new post. But don't hold your breath for that to happen. Blue-faced dancers aren't likely to find a partner easily. I can't wait to read posts trying to explain to me that 4 songs that feel the same are the right way to go (I have an open mind, but I also have a brain). (And I'd really love to hear an explanation from the d.j.'s who will play SIX DeAngelis songs in a row because a CD is so easy to roll!) That would be 5 Tandas an hour that are all inevitably boring, times 5 or 6 or 7 hours. A great night. With a wink and best regards to all, and an expectation of some thought-provoking responses, I remain Yours truly, Keith Elshaw ToTANGO! http://www.interlog.com/~elshaw/ttindex.html


Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2000 17:37:23 +0100 From: DW <dwajn @IMAGE.DK> Subject: Women asking men to dance Sramana Mitra wrote: >>> just like other little things where we like to accept traditions because they are charming... like a man opening the door? being driven to the party, or home? being picked up for a date? being courted? being seduced? being kissed? being undressed? being given a ring? several of the above are not as elegant if you reverse the roles! Sramana >>>> Dear Sramana, Thank you, this is so nice that I am almost convinced. Still, certain things are great in reverse. Others may be less elegant. "Cottelstone, Cottelstone, Cottelstone pie, Flies can't bird, but birds can fly...."(Winnie the Pooh, I think) I would certainly enjoy your examples, except I do not need a ring. And then again, some less elegant things are great, although the English discarded sex for this reason, saying that "...The pleasure is momentary, the cost is damnable, the position is ridiculous...". Seriously, these ideas cannot be to everybody's taste, they are about the freedom to choose. Some ladies do not find it charming to sit and wait, what would you offer them? Best regards, Dan Wajnman dwajn @image.dk


Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2000 11:06:20 -0600 From: Stephen P Brown <Stephen.P.Brown @DAL.FRB.ORG> Subject: Re: Tanda Preferences Keith Elshaw <elshaw @INTERLOG.COM> wrote: >How do you like your Tandas? (If you like them). ... Like Keith, I find it less interesting to dance to three to five songs in a row that sound exactly the same. I generally like tandas to be from the same orchestra and the same era but with some variation in tempo and sound. I also appreciate the artful assembly of mixed tandas. I recently assembled some vals tandas on a cassette for use at the practica that Susan and I host every Thursday night in Dallas. We plan to play a tanda or two from it at each practica. Each tanda contains three or four valses. For most tandas, I did not mix orchestras, but I did put together a few tandas by mixing orchestras that had a similar feel. More importantly, my overriding critieria in setting up the entire tape was that each vals would make everyone forget all the previous valses on the tape, which was quite challenging because I started the cassette with a tanda of DeAngelis valses. In taking this approach, I quickly eliminated any vals that would sound like a rerun of the one played before it. How can you forget the past when it is being rerun? ;-) --Steve de Tejas


Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2000 12:18:15 EST From: Jack Karako <JKarako @AOL.COM> Subject: Url update Forwarded from a friend, Enjoy. The website of the festival in Tel Aviv 23 -30 April is updated: -- For people who do not want to have the full package, please check the registration part for more optionals, like, having only workshops and the milongas, or being in 5 stars or 3 stars hotel without the workshops etc.......... -- The schedule for workshops is also given http://www.tango.co.il


Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2000 12:42:53 -0500 From: Enrico Massetti <e_mass @EMAIL.MSN.COM> Subject: Fw: Re: Fw: Missing apologies Sabine: > Is there really somebody interested in this shit? Where for the heck is the > webmaster? Vicky: >Here we go again !!! > >It has been a long time since this foolishness has happened. It is really >too bad that we actually have people who sit at their computers all day long >and write these sorts of things. Dear Sabine and Vicky, and all the others that did not bother to read my posting in its full length, either out of disgust or simple lack of interest for this kind of crap, please take two minutes of your time and read the end of my last posting, that in attached below. Thanks, and, please relax and have a little laugh! Enrico >> Enrico, what can I do to make Rosi estop wearing mi boots? > >> > >> Ciao, > >> > >> Gabriella Gossipa > > > >(Missing signature:) > >----------------------------------------------------------------- > >Frank Williams, Phd, University of Minnesota > >(I took the liberty to put back the signature, Frank please forgive me) > > > >Thanks Frank for helping me to make my point with a lot of humor: > > > >We have rules to prevent personal gossips to be posted on the list, the > >reason WHY we have these rules is because on the Internet it is so easy > >to fake identities and disseminate false, wrong or simply inappropriate > >information of personal nature that this has to be forbidden. > > > >I don't know if Rosi is a man or a woman, I don't know if he/she even > >exists, or if the name is only a fake identity assumed for whatever reason >> by somebody who wants to throw dirt on a key figure of tango in Florida. > > > >In addition, there is no lady in the world who tells me her most intimate > >secrets of her after-dance, even if sometimes I am part of "real" gossips > >among "real" milongueras and milongueros who comment the dancing > >style and ability of their partners, usually around a table having an > >after-milonga cup of coffee. > > > >So, dear Rosi, whoever you are, if you really exist, and feel that you just > >made an honest mistake, go forward with the tangueros of Miami, they >> are looking for you to dance a tango with you. They, both men and women, >> are very good with ganchos! > > > >And, if you don't exist, but you are only a fake identity, rest in peace > >forever. > > > >So long, > > > >Enrico


Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2000 12:47:46 -0600 From: "Frank G. Williams" <frankw @MAIL.AHC.UMN.EDU> Subject: Re: Fw: Missing apologies Dear friends, Sabine wrote: > Is there really somebody interested in this ...snip Two quick points: 1. You should all realize that masqueraders have been around Tango-l for many years and they are usually relatively harmless in their pseudonymous attempts to stir up trouble, except this time somebody blind sided a fine gentleman who is respected and admired by many. Were it me, I would appreciate it if people spoke up, rather than simply ignoring the situation. That is why I voluntarily joined my friends from Florida in protest. 2. If it was inappropriate to answer an insult with humor, you are entitled to your opinion. No indirect offense was intended. Like Enrico, I have always tried to contribute to the friendliness of tango-l. With a smile and warm regards (except to masqueraders), Frank -- _____________________________________________________________ Frank G. Williams, Ph.D. University of Minnesota frankw @mail.ahc.umn.edu Dept. of Neuroscience (612) 625-6441 (office) 321 Church Street SE (612) 624-4436 (lab) Minneapolis, MN 55455 (612) 281-3860 (cellular/home)


Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2000 12:03:33 -0700 From: Madhav Apte <mapte @CONCENTRIC.NET> Subject: Re: Tanda Preferences Hello List: I am also curious to see whether there is any substantial reason why songs from the same orchestra are played together. The only reason I can think of is if someone is comfortable with a particular orchestra and they have just asked someone to dance, they have the opportunity to dance a set to something they like and can dance to. Like Keith and Stephen, I don't like to have songs with the exact same tempo played together. If that particular style is boring (to me), it makes me sleepy ;-)) so I sit down asap. I have heard valses in a set and milongas in a set. Of the two, the milonga set can be challenging if you and your partner of the moment don't or can't dance the milonga well together (if otoh, you happen to have someone that you can "click" with for milongas - well, that is delicious!) I find that I like it better when the tempo is not repeated from one song to the next. It can be the same orchestra or different orchestras, it does not matter. Further, I see no reason why one couldn't have mix tangos, valses and milongas mixed within a set. Lately I have found myself having strong likes/dislikes about music. This makes attending milongas (or even practicas) challenging. But I am working on really trying to understand the DJ's view (if they have one) and to see things from their point of view. So the discussion here could be fruitful if other folks post reasons for the things that Keith et al. have asked about.


Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2000 15:49:05 -0500 From: "L: Anne-Sophie Ville" <Aville @WORLDBANK.ORG> Subject: Roommate for Cosmo Tango I am organizing a group from Washington DC, to participate at the Cosmo Tango in Buenos Aires in March, and one of the participant (a man) is still looking for a roommate. If you are interested in sharing a room, or if you know somebody who might be interetsted, please contact me. The hotel where we will stay is the Bristol. Thanks for your help. Anne-Sophie tanganso @hotmail.com http://www.geocities.com/tanganso


Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2000 16:28:39 EST From: Richard deSousa <M1APORT @AOL.COM> Subject: Milonga CD Hi List: I'm wondering if anyone can tell me where to find a milonga tune called "Milonga de Noveciento". Thanks. Rich deSousa


Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2000 13:02:05 +0100 From: Helaine Treitman <treitman @GIOTTO.ORG> Subject: Zotto and Plebs on National Geographic Tango Documentary I too was disappointed this version was so short. But I'm happy I was able to videotape the pieces with Zotto and Plebs, the first tango dancers I ever saw! Seeing them on tape still inspires me like the first time I saw them on stage in 1994. Anyone know where I can find more footage with Miguel and Milena? (For anyone doesn't know them, the founders of Tango X 2 no longer dance together!) Thanks, Helaine


Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2000 17:20:18 EST From: Leonardo Tanguero <TangoLeon @AOL.COM> Subject: Re: Missing apologies and Latino Stereotypes > >Querido Tangueros y tangueras, > >midnight is passed by without apologies from Mr. Rosi, so, as promised, >here you have some excerpts of the e-mail I received from a lady, the >complete >original is in the attachment: Although it is apparent that Rosi's comments to the list were inappropriate and humor may be an appropriate way to defuse the issue while getting across the message, I take strong objection to the character of the humor. I do not doubt that the author did not intend to insult, but I find it insulting. The writing of Gabriella Gossipa, although fictional, portrays an demeaning sterotype of Latinas. The incorrect grammar, spelling, and Latinized pronounciation is a cruel caricature of a Latina who is not fluent in English. I would think that tangueros would be more sensitive to these issues. Tango is a product of Latin culture. Much of the music contains lyrics in Spanish. Dancing to a product of Latin culture on one hand and insulting another spect of the culture on the other hand is a mockery. Leonardo El Leon del Tango TangoLeon @aol.com


Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2000 14:38:23 -0800 From: Ruddy Zelaya <ruddy.zelaya @ENG.SUN.COM> Subject: Re: Tanda Preferences (long) Hola Naifas y Garabos, "The time has come," the Walrus said, "To talk of many things: Of shoes--and ships--and sealing-wax-- Of cabbages--and kings-- And why the sea is boiling hot-- And whether pigs have wings." Lewis Carrol. Alice In Wonderland =20 Today's topic is tandas. First, a little history lesson. Tandas got started (like most inventions) out of necessity. Radio broadcasts had popularized the best orchestras and the best tangos. The teeming masses couldn't get enough of them. Alas, there was only one D'Arienzo orchestra, one Troilo, one Francisco Canaro, so if you couldn't afford to go where they played you were out of luck, listening to the equivalent of our modern garage bands. Shortly after the great (and not so great) tango orchestras of yesteryear began recording, someone figured out that the easiest way of getting their music to the teeming masses --especially if they happen to be lowly scum living in the sticks, las orillas ;-)-- was to acquire a victrola and play some records for them. Voil=E1, the tango DJ was born. The proto-DJ of those days would put in a record, crank "la man=EDja" (the handle), and let it rip --literally, the so called needle (la p=FAa) was almost as thick as a nail ;-) Since the whole process would take time --no zero-wait random access here-- it was not unusual for the same record to be played twice in a row to save time (this little tidbit comes courtesy of tango master Orlando Paiva, who used to sneak into the dance halls as a child --he's now 70ish and no longer sneaks ;-). Some of the old platters contained two short songs (about 1.5 mins per) rather than one long one. Lo and behold, the beginning of a tanda was at hand. The advent of the long play (LP) record with 6, 8 or more songs per side made it easy for a DJ to play sets longer than two songs. Now, since a record typically contains the same orchestra playing in the same year and with (presumably) the same rhythm, the full blown tanda ( tanda =3D=3D a set of 4 or more songs) as we know it was born. When the price of record players came down enough so that the luxury of having two players was no longer a luxury, the necessity of playing whatever was on one side of a record was eliminated. DJs could cue up one record while playing another. Still, old habits die hard and DJs continued doing the tandas the same way, i.e., selecting sets from the same side of a record, because it was easy and faster that way. By the way, with the two record players the "cortina" tradition was also born. The cortina was meant to be "filler" music while the DJ was busy loading up the players. Dancers whiled the time away by walking the ladies back to their tables, in idle conversation, or doing what all males do when trying to convince the gentler sex that they are it ;-) If you notice, there are no cortinas when a live orchestra plays. There is no need for it. People applaud, fiddlers fiddle with their fiddle, men do what they do, a dog barks in the distance.... ;-) Back to the future. Is it reasonable to expect modern DJs to play tandas in the days of zero-wait, random access dual CD players, mini-disks, and computer jukeboxes? No. Not any more reasonable than it is for a man to wear a tie today --ties are vestigial scarfs which were worn to keep your neck warm when central heating was a luxury reserved for the same people who owned Faberg=E9 eggs. Today you need one as much as you need another appendix. Yet, we do tandas and wear ties for the same reasons, tradition and because, when done right, it feels and looks good. A well put together tanda has an internal and an external rhythm. As a set, it has to have cohesion but it should not be boring. As part of the evening's entertaintment, it has to help the flow of energy emanating from the dancers without whipping them up into a frenzie or plunging them into a morass. A good tanda is bloody hard to create and requires a lot of music, a lot of knowledge about the music, and a keen eye for what is going on on the dance floor. Tandas are like Italian sports cars. When done well, they are great; when done poorly they are ghastly ;-) Add to the equation the fact that most tango DJs are the DJ by virtue of having more CDs or recordings than their clients *not* because they have a particular talent or affinity to the music, and you have a recipe for disaster. So, what's a good tanda --provided of course that you want to run a traditional milonga. If you are not, then there is not much point to it, is there? Just play whatever you want in any order you want and may God have mercy on your milonga attendees ;-) Here are *my* guidelines, i.e., this is my opinion and I'm entitled to it. You, on the other hand, can and should do whatever you want. As always, guidelines should be used as such not as straight jackets. o A good tanda has cohesive elements This has been taken as: same orchestra, same tempo, same year, same fill-in-the-blank. This is wrong. While cohesiveness can certainly be achieved by doing that, it has the side effect of being boring. We humans like variety. Respect that by varying some of the factors involved. For example, keep cohesiveness by playing a D'Arienzo set from the 40s. Satisfy variety by playing two fast ones and two mid-tempo ones. =20 o A good tanda is aware of the previous tanda The energy of the dancers is not limitless. If you just played a set of fast milongas, don't follow up with a set of frenetic D'Arienzo tangos. If you just played a Di Sarli set, pump up the energy by tossing in a Biagi set. Also, don't play 1940's D'Arienzo, followed by Biagi. You just created a jumbo tanda of 8 songs or more with the same rhythm and performers. This is where having read the liner notes or a tango orchestra history book comes handy. =20 o A good tanda does not necessarily mean same orchestra Remember, a tanda is just a set. An artificial collection put together by you. You decide what is a set. For example, at my milongas I often play what I call an "experimental tango" set. The only thing that these 4 tangos have in common is that each song was recorded *after* 1990, by contemporary performers. I may play one or two of Tangata Rea, Color Tango, Gidon Kremer, or Tango 7, to name a few. I happen to know a DJ who would play sets according to themes, e.g., numbers: Uno, followed by Dos Canarios, Tres Amigos, Cuatro Compases, etc. The wind: El Huracan, Ventarron, Gime El Viento, etc. Handicapped birds: Gallo Ciego, Pajaro Ciego, etc. ;-) The possibilities are endless. Granted, this is pushing the definition of a tanda but who do you want to keep happy, your milonga attendees or some nameless/faceless purist who doesn't even know how tandas evolved? =20 o A good tanda is created Don't assume that because a CD was recorded in a particular order that that is how is supposed to be played. Worse yet, do not push the random shuffle button on your CD player and expect good results. =20 o Good tandas are either all instrumentals or not Don't mix instrumental arrangements with vocal arrangements. Keep them separate. Also, pick one singer and stick with it. Most tango orchestras of the golden age had one singer or a duo who performed with them. Music was arranged with them in mind, e.g., the tempo and range was adapted to the singers abilities. When you mix singers the tempo can fluctuate dramatically robbing the tanda from a significant cohesiveness factor. =20 o Good tandas are not mini Best-Of samplers Every tanda should have at least one stand-out great tango. However, if every song in it is great, then the whole is diminished, e.g., a Pugliese set consisting of Emancipaci=F3n, Chiqu=E9, Gallo Ciego and La Yumba. Because each song is such a centerpiece, the set as a whole feels too heavy. =20 o Good tandas don't exhaust/bore the dancers A good tanda pleases the dancers without making them so tired that they collapse half-way thru it. On the other hand, playing 4 slow as molasses in winter valses should be a punishable offence ;-) For example, don't play Filiberto's Tus Ojos Me Embelesan followed by Canaro's Quisiera Amarte Menos followed by Gobbi's version of L=E1grimas Y Sonrisas. People are going to be moving so slow that they are liable to go back in reverse, trip and fall and I hope they all land on the DJ's head... ;-) =20 Well, I didn't mean for this message to get this long. I'm sure that other people can come up with similar guidelines on how they do their tandas. Lets hear'em. The bottom line is that tandas are not the problem. It is bad DJs arranging lousy tandas that are. May your local DJ arrange some good tandas with cortinas for y'all.


ruddy


Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2000 17:27:23 -0500 From: Daniel Saindon <gardien @TANGO.MONTREAL.QC.CA> Subject: TANGO TANGO, April 19 to 24 Good evening The weather here in Montreal is actually very nice for this time of the year and we hear people say that we are now on the "good side" of winter which is another way of saying that the worst of the winter season is behind us and that tempeture will now improve day by day as we move toward Spring. Spring looks very promising indeed... and I would like to invite you to five days of events and workshops between April 19 and Easter Monday 24 April 2000 surrounding the presentation of TANGO TANGO featuring Maria Cieri and Rodolfo Cieri ( who will offer some courses in canyengue ), Claudia Codega and Esteban Moreno ( both couples are presenting workshops at the CITA of Bs AS during the middle of March, along with Veronica Alvarenga and Pablo Inza and musicians from the Montreal Tango Ensemble with special guests Nestor Vaz Chavez, bandoneonist and the guitarist of his orchestra Julio Cobelli. The event is organized by Paul Monpetit email address: tangueri @generation.net Enough said, you will find all the details on this web page: http://www.tango.montreal.qc.ca/tangotango.htm ( There is a 23 % reduction for groups of 10 people. ) Daniel Saindon gardien @tango.montreal.qc.ca *********************************** http://www.tango.montreal.qc.ca/ is a web site of information on Tango music & Artists and many aspects of Tango Culture. ***********************************


Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2000 16:56:34 +0000 From: Felix Delgado <felixmilonguero @JUNO.COM> Subject: Re: Women asking men to dance In theory, I don't see why anyone should be concerned about women asking men to dance. Why should men only have the right to choose who they want to dance with? As a relative beginner in tango, I would be honored if a woman who is a good dancer would ask me to dance (because I'm too afraid to ask the really good ones). I assume she'd know what she's getting into when she asks me to dance. But because few women actually ask men to dance, I think some men see the ones doing the asking as being the 'desperate' kind. In other words, the women who get asked to dance are usually either the better dancers or perhaps the more attractive women, and the ones that don't get asked to dance are otherwise (as a generalization, at least). If more women asked men to dance, perhaps this misconception would vanish. With only men doing the asking, we have an unfair position of power of choice over women. Felix Delgado ________________________________________________________________ YOU'RE PAYING TOO MUCH FOR THE INTERNET! Juno now offers FREE Internet Access! Try it today - there's no risk! For your FREE software, visit: http://dl.www.juno.com/get/tagj.


Date: Wed, 2 Feb 2000 21:24:29 -0700 From: Madhav Apte <mapte @CONCENTRIC.NET> Subject: Re: Tanda Preferences Thanks Ruddy for a great job on explaining the origins of Tandas. I also enjoyed your explanations of what can/should constitute a Tanda. Just the kind of thing I was hoping for. Madhav Apte mapte @pobox.com


Date: Thu, 3 Feb 2000 02:20:46 EST From: Rosa Maria Perez <Rositango @AOL.COM> Subject: Re: Missing Apologies - "Rosi's Comments" Dear List: On February 1, 2000, I responded to the accusation of slander thru the proper TANGO-L moderator. It was censored. I have sent direct messages to those that demanded my apology. I have nothing else to say. If you wish to be sent a copy of the censored posting, contact me directly. Sincerely, Rosi


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