Re: [TANGO-L] hidden deep tango conversations

[Michael at Tango Bellingham <michaele @TANGOBELLINGHAM.COM>]

Trini or Sean - PATangoS wrote:
> The last one is something that I have been discussing
> lately with some locals.  How can one be expressive
> without eliciting undesired attention?  Perhaps one
> cannot.

Simple. We tell our students, "yes, it's the three-minute love affair,
but what goes on, on the dance floor, doesn't come off the dance floor,
unless it's by mutual consent." And if the guy can't take the hint
(sorry, it's usually us guys that need to hit with the clue stick) and
the lady can't handle it herself (which the vast majority can), the
woman can come talk to me and *I'll* handle it. (Michael smiling his
best Luca Brasi smile here)

Also, we tell them they're not under any obligation to dance with
anyone, male or female, that makes them the slightest bit uncomfortable.

Michael
Tango Bellingham
www.tangobellingham.com