[TANGO-L] Fw: [TANGO-L] hidden deep tango conversations

[astrid <astrid @RUBY.PLALA.OR.JP>]

  How can one be expressive
> without eliciting undesired attention?
> I have the magic words "my husband" that I use to draw
> boundaries,>

 Still an old-fashioned Southern gal from the Bible
> Belt,
> Trini ...

Oh, yes, I can see that....; )
To me, Jonathan's posting was interesting, about those few special people
who are able to sense and express a wider, more finely tuned range of
sensual perception. Or something to that extent.
To me, tango is seduction heightened to an art form. And those magic words
of Trini's would not work for me at all....Socially sanctioned, documented,
registered forms of relations can really be an antidote to the art of
seduction, which usually happens spontaneously and naturally and sometimes
without intent, IMHO.
Be that as it may, Japan is certainly a much more unaggressive country, so
these experiences are usually enjoyed in silence here, and sometimes without
even acknowledging to the dance partner by a look, a nod or a word, that
that special feeling during the dance really happened. The music stops and
both simply bow and walk away...
Certains moves in tango, as I see them, are all about pursuit and evasion
and it's interplay, such as sacadas, paradas, e.g.

Astrid