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There are 7 messages totalling 371 lines in this issue. Topics of the day: 1. Social Dance Versus Posing (3) 2. tango hello, and then some 3. non-argentine tango (2) 4. THANKS TO RANDY & LYDIA


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Date: Fri, 7 Jul 2000 16:11:58 +0200 From: Natarajan Balasundara <rajan @EMC.COM> Subject: Re: Social Dance Versus Posing Pete Hollings wrote: > The question I wish to pose is. > > Do you think it is fair, for supposed experts, to dominate floorspace > giving what amounts to demonstrations of complicated and intricate figures, > in what is already quite a cramped venue. Whilst all others that have > just gone along to enjoy a pleasant social dance, find themselves cornered > or cramped while these people thrash their legs around??? > I do not think it is. If they are truely experts, they should be able to fit their figures in their own space and not do those which will requires them to push out other people. Most of the time they are just trying to imitate their masters-- and usually manage a bad imitation. > What bothers me most about this sort of thing is, that the people doing > this don't really seem to be enjoying themselves that much. They just > seem to be going through a series of set figures with the same partners. > There is no passion, there is no life, just legs.... > Here is an interesting article on styles and what the adherents of those styles do in a social dancing environment (although this is not what the master may have told them to do): http://www.cyber-tango.com/art/t_term1.html#long_def (under "New(names for) styles of dance.") rajan.


Date: Fri, 7 Jul 2000 08:58:10 -0700 From: Judith Farkas <judith @PARACEL.COM> Subject: Re: tango hello, and then some Dear List, Well,...Rico brings up a few interesting points. I do agree that many women who are critical of leaders in fact, often need to acquire some basic skills themselves before criticizing anyone. It is often these same women who cannot complete a graceful molinete or a balanced ocho. It is however not necessarily the case that we should all decide to take a given man and do with him what we will. No matter that I would joyfully do so at the drop of a hat in Tango circles and many other circles wherever possible! ;-) That being said, if the man is open to that sort of experience, then fine but I suspect that such an opportunity is rare. To do as you suggest Rico, is difficult and a bit lacking in grace without the willingness of the male. I am certain that you can imagine how difficult it is to lead a woman if she prefers in actuality to not be lead by you or anyone else. It would be an arduous task at best. Most of the males with whom I dance do expect to lead. They do not expect to be lead. There is within guidelines some latitude which encourages a dialogue between the partners and that much I see as being the ultimate objective. I have no desire to use the man as an unwilling pole for the display of my skills. In truth, when I see women doing that type of solo performance, I think it vain, self centered and embarrassing. It makes me wonder what the point of the exercise is at all! Whatever the point is for others, it is lost on me and is in addition not something to which I aspire. Rico did make some quite accurate observations though. It is grand to follow an expert leader and experience that Tango high that we all know and love. A great leader does not pull me off my axis and he allows me some opportunity for self expression as well. The ideal is a dialogue between two people, no? However, to expertly execute my steps, embellishments, etc. and follow the inexpert leader to any degree while also attempting to gain control over this person who is out of control, but expects to control me, is off balance, and outweighs me from 30 - 100 pounds, that I think a task too onerous to undertake. AGAIN, if a man is open to the dialogue, then yes I can communicate with him to slow down a little, or speed up or pause a moment while I make a small statement. What I am not inclined to do is to wrestle for control on the dance floor. If a man is not open to my in-put, then I may simply prefer not to dance with him. AND, that is no crime. It is my prerogative. It is conversely the man's prerogative to not dance with me as well for whatever reason. In many cases it is not a statement about the skill level of my partner at all. Rather it may be the case that there is not that connection that I seek in a dance partner. AND, that is the opportunity that I was referring to above, that rare moment when two people connect. It is just that...rare. The rarity of that moment is not subject to blaming anyone. What I believe to be at the heart of Rico's writing is that perhaps we, women should be a bit more discreet and a bit less critical of others. Fine, if you do not connect with so and so, but please refrain from running the guy into the ground. Guide the gentleman if you can, providing that he is open to your gentle guidance. IF you do not connect with the gentleman, then simply do not dance with him, but do so quietly. Suffering him does him an injustice. Ah, but here is the caveat. It is also the case that we all need to graciously work with the beginners and to make them feel comfortable and welcome. We were all beginners once. Once again, there is a case for a balanced perspective. Best Regards to All, Judith Judith Farkas Senior Account Manager Paracel 3833 North First Street San Jose, CA 95134 510.583.6175 Phone 650.766.7328 Cell judith @paracel.com www.paracel.com


Date: Fri, 7 Jul 2000 16:17:44 +0000 From: Larry Carroll <larrydla @JUNO.COM> Subject: non-argentine tango Thanks, Michael Knowles, for all the great info! A friend of mine, Dr. Lucia Marino, formerly professor of Italian Language & Literature (& now a real-time/telemetry software engineer!) tells me that tango was a popular craze in the 1030's in Italy. So there should be some CDs out there of music from there. Harlequin has two CDs that I love, "Buenos Aires to Madrid" (HQ CD 88) of Argentine tango bands in Spain 1927-41, and "Buenos Aires to Berlin" (HQ CD 61) of bands in Germany 1927-39. A third (double) CD is from Fremeaux & Associes S.A. called "Tango: le tango a paris 1907-1941." Much of the works are scratchy but some have been re-mastered amazingly well. Even some of the scratchy works are very beautiful. Larry de Los Angeles http://home.att.net/~larrydla ________________________________________________________________ YOU'RE PAYING TOO MUCH FOR THE INTERNET! Juno now offers FREE Internet Access! Try it today - there's no risk! For your FREE software, visit: http://dl.www.juno.com/get/tagj.


Date: Fri, 7 Jul 2000 13:44:43 -0700 From: William Cheorvas <tangito @PACBELL.NET> Subject: THANKS TO RANDY & LYDIA I wish to commend Randy and Lydia for a job very well done regarding their recent Tangofest in Miami. Also, their recent posting "Remembering Independence Day" was of special interest to me as not long ago I had the opportunity to see the original Declaration of Independence at the National Archives in Washington -- and also have some very enjoyable tango in Washington- very friendly people there. Again, many thanks to Randy and Lydia for a great tango event, and many wishes for even greater success with their next Tangofest. Bill


Date: Fri, 7 Jul 2000 23:55:43 -0300 From: "=?iso-8859-1?Q?Jos=E9?= A. Contreras" <jcontrer @CMET.NET> Subject: Re: Social Dance Versus Posing Hi list! I've seen this kind of people in many places and in many countries, and I= agree : they are imitating their masters, but in the wrong environment and in suc= h a way that it is a shame... People who really know how to dance tango, know also where to do what ste= ps or figures, and how to share a limited resurce as it is the floor in a tango= place. If something like this happens in a milonga in Bs.As., be sure : all the = real tangueros will close the space to this specimen in such a way he will not= be able even to walk... he will be pushed out of the floor... Best regards Jos=E9 Antonio Contreras Tango from Chile Natarajan Balasundara wrote: > Pete Hollings wrote: > > > The question I wish to pose is. > > > > Do you think it is fair, for supposed experts, to dominate floorspace > > giving what amounts to demonstrations of complicated and intricate fi= gures, > > in what is already quite a cramped venue. Whilst all others that h= ave > > just gone along to enjoy a pleasant social dance, find themselves cor= nered > > or cramped while these people thrash their legs around??? > > > I do not think it is. If they are truely experts, they should be able t= o > fit their figures in their own space and not do those which will > requires them to push out other people. Most of the time they are just > trying to imitate their masters-- and usually manage a bad imitation. > > > What bothers me most about this sort of thing is, that the people doi= ng > > this don't really seem to be enjoying themselves that much. They ju= st > > seem to be going through a series of set figures with the same partne= rs. > > There is no passion, there is no life, just legs.... > > > > Here is an interesting article on styles and what the adherents of thos= e > styles do in a social dancing environment (although this is not what th= e > master may have told them to do): > > http://www.cyber-tango.com/art/t_term1.html#long_def > > (under "New(names for) styles of dance.") > > rajan.


Date: Sat, 8 Jul 2000 00:32:17 -0400 From: Melinda Bates <tangerauna @EARTHLINK.NET> Subject: non-argentine tango From Larry: "...tango was a popular craze in the 1030's in Italy...." Wow! tango in the dark ages! Who knew? :) Melinda


Date: Sat, 8 Jul 2000 13:58:19 +0800 From: Juan Rando <juan @STARWON.COM.AU> Subject: Re: Social Dance Versus Posing As a co-resident of Perth and Tango Dancer, as well as friend and peer of many of these "supposed experts", I read this recent posting with interest. As Perth is small and thus the community, I was curious too read such strong opinions from someone I didn't even know by name. So I took it upon myself to find out a little more of the history in all this. Here is a classic case of a complete novice passing judgement on his peers and his masters. For what end I cannot be sure. Possibly, he truly believes what he has said. >The question I wish to pose is. > >Do you think it is fair, for supposed experts, to dominate floorspace >giving what amounts to demonstrations of complicated and intricate figures, >in what is already quite a cramped venue. Whilst all others that have >just gone along to enjoy a pleasant social dance, find themselves cornered >or cramped while these people thrash their legs around??? I'm not sure who you define as experts. Maybe you set your sights to low. Many people at that venue are beginners, and are simply trying to dance as best they can. They will try to imitate. That, by the way, is more than %50 of the learning process. Sometimes it will be uncontrolled or inappropriate. Unqualified public judgement on them will do nothing to help things here, particularly as many do subscribe to this list. Complicated and intricate figures? A double-sacada is about the most complicated figure I've ever seen executed socially by any of my peers, as we are all fanatical about encouraging a social style of dance. I think, once again, what is complicated for some is routine for others. >What bothers me most about this sort of thing is, that the people doing >this don't really seem to be enjoying themselves that much. They just >seem to be going through a series of set figures with the same partners. >There is no passion, there is no life, just legs.... How dare anybody pass judgement on how another person "feels" whilst they are dancing. It is this kind of presumption and unkindness that makes it so hard to establish a friendly and functioning Tango community in Perth. >It's not that I'm jealous of these people, frankly I have no doubt that I >am just as (if not more) competent dancer, it's just that I and the >majority of people go to enjoy ourselves and not show off. Once again, "who are you?". You are certainly not as competant as any of the "experts" that I know. In fact, I've seen you dance but once socially, and you never leave the side of your partner to dance with others. You have danced for only a year, with no previous dance experience. By the standards of any significant Tango community, you would still be a beginner. Learning to dance is like a martial art, it never ends, it's disciplined. An aerial roundhouse kick may seem improbably to a white belt, but is routine to a second dan. As is Tango. As another line of discussion for this list, this whole matter has reminded me of something that I have noticed since returning to Perth, and I'm sure occurs in other communities. I've noticed this attitude both with Salsa and Tango. Often I've seen students very quickly believing themselves to be professionals, as they have little to judge themselves against. I my self experienced this on two occasions with female students. When I returned to Perth from the US in 1998, there was knowone to dance with at my level, and I was frustrated. I taught one girl for 3 months, who then presumed too quickly that she was ready to teach, simply because relatively speaking there was nothing to compare herself against. I must admit that I'm at fault partly in that situation, as I was simply over enthusiastic in encouraging her dance, and thus probably overinflated her ego somewhat. >Does this sort of thing happen in other communities??? Yes, people like you do happen in other communities. >regards > >Pete Hollings Juan Rando


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